How can I love you better?
Ask.
How can I love you better?
Okay: is this what you mean?
If not, could you tell me again, please?
Can we be specific: what do you want me to do differently?
What are the actions you'll like me to take in reality?
Can I tell you why a few of those would be very hard for me?
Can we explore ways I can do everything you want and still take care of what's hard for me?
What do you really want?
What is the deeper level of what you really want?
What can we do right now to begin to shift things?
What can we do later tonight to shift things?
What are you feeling and sensing in the present?
What am I feeling and sensing in the present?
What can I do right now, to help you shift whatever you'd like to shift?
What else do you want to tell me?
Touch and Talk
Talk and Touch
that's the program
and it seems so simple
and
it's
not
so let's say in the talk you want
to help things
be better
the vibe, the feeling, the overtone of your relationship hasn't been so great lately
and you want it to change
so what to do
talk
talk with the timer
talk about what you want
talk about what you are afraid to say
talk about your guess as to what's going on in the other person
this is a lot
this is gold
this is why relationships
if taken as paths to awakening
are so
very
wonder
ful
and valuable
what you want vs. your complaint
what you are afraid to talk about, vs what's wrong with them
guessing what's going on in them, and make sure it's not an insulting guess
what are the fears and worries and prior woundings that are going on in them?
discover what you can
enjoy
